When my mom was in her forties, although she only survived until 49, I remember her saying, “I’m sick of stuff!” She said it was time to enjoy people and memories and not concentrate on accumulating more stuff; her nick-nacks started to decrease because she didn’t want to spend the time dusting. Lately, I find myself sharing her sentiments. We have so much stuff to take care of that our efforts to keep up with it all cut into the time that we actually spend with our loved ones.
With this in mind, I knew one of the junked up areas in my home/life was my closet. When you go to get ready in the morning and you continually run into the problem where you cannot find that belt or tank or whatever the need of the day may be, you know it is time to get busy! I realize I should have done this as part of my annual spring cleaning. The problem with that is mine never got fully accomplished.
The closet attack started off with a bang and then as per usual, I get hung up in the details. Which hangers should I keep? Should I arrange by season or by color? Will that EVER fit, or should I just give it away and be done with the disappointment? Should I keep the few shoe boxes I have or get rid of them since I don’t have them all? This is the type of minutia that impedes my progress no matter the task!
Finally, I got frustrated, headed for my laptop and read some blogs about closet organization. You would think by 47, I would have figured all of this out long ago, but no, so thankfully I gleaned valuable tips from some savvy women.
Three bulging garbage bags later, I finally saw the bottom of my closet and everything was on a hanger or in a box. Oh, the feeling of finally allowing yourself to let go of “stuff”! But, seriously, if you haven’t worn something in a year, you just aren’t going to. You probably bought it on a whim, on sale or someone gave it to you . Let it go and preferably to someone who can really benefit!
Not a moment too soon, my husband came in for the evening and rescued me from further detailing, so I still have the color coding to go, but this girl is feeling accomplished. Yes, my first efforts in down-sizing to a more manageable collection of clothing was a success and I’m anxious to move on to something else.